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Have you ever thought about why some of us flirt outrageously? We all do flirt from time to time but it is one of those things that some of us do without even thinking about why or how.
Putting it simply, flirting is one way to let other singles know that you are interested. If you are single you should flirt up your life if you really do want to get connected. Flirting with somone of the opposite sex says I am available and |I want you to take an interest in me. Of course it depends on how we blatant we are when we flirt, a quick grope is often seen as too far too soon. Flirting really is for those who are with someone you think you may like to develop a long term relationship with.
If you are basically a shy introvert, perhaps with low self confidence having been away from the dating scene, flirting can be quite daunting. Never think about what might go wrong, there are plenty more options if it doesn't work out especially if you join singles dating girls.
We make it easy, like everything else; practice makes perfect so if you want to flirt successfully, you need to stick your toe in the water and give it a go before you dive in after the big fish. Join up and start chatting you'll soon get the hang of it, practice your flirting skills. If you make a mistake all most you lose is the time you spent flirting but you'll have learned a lot. Your confidence will grow, when you find what you have been looking for you'll be ready to show what you are made of.
* Smile
Picture the scene. You're sitting at a pavement cafe on a warm, sunny day. A reasonably nice looking girl or guy walks past, glances in your direction but looks as miserable as sin. Five minutes later another reasonable looker walks past. This one looks across as you and smiles. Which of them would you most likely want to get to know better? My bet's that you'd go with the second, simply because of the smile.
A smile immediately gives your appearance more warmth so you'll seem more open and inviting to others.
When you get chatting, smile in appropriate places. Don't sit there grinning like a cheshire cat; at best you'll appear false, at worse your potential date will think you've forgotten to take your medication.
A smile shows interest and best of all, it's contagious.
Now we'll focus on the girls perspective but equally it applies to guys who are looking.
Make Eye Contact
Everybody enjoys looking at something they find appealing and you don't want him to think you don't fancy him, do you? If you're shy or insecure about flirting you'll perhaps find it difficult to hold his gaze for a moment longer than you should but you really MUST look at him when he's speaking. Looking at everything else will just say "that crack in the pavement's more interesting to look at than you" and that's hardly what you want, is it?
If, on the other hand, you're super confident, don't go making the reverse mistake and spend the evening staring at him. Men may love to boast to their mates that "she couldn't take her eyes off me" but in reality, being stared at makes a person feel awkward and embarrassed.
*A gentle touch
A difficult one, this! Especially if you're shy.
Think back to primary school and that boy who fancied you (or fancied your mate, or whoever). Remember how he used to push you in the corridor or pull your hair in the playground? It's hardly strange we find it difficult to understand the opposite sex when that's how they behave when they fancy us but it was all about having the opportunity to touch us.
Now that we're older we have to find other ways of touching one another without appearing to be too intimate. Dancing's a good solution, as is touching his arm or knee when laughing together. Losing your balance slightly whilst walking together so that you have to reach out and balance yourself against him's another good ploy, as is asking him to help you on with your coat.
You Can Feel Sexy
Dress to feel sexy but remember that sexy isn't about showing it all. In fact, it isn't necessarily about showing anything! The way the fabric feels against your skin, heels and wearing your frillies underneath your dress can all make a woman feel sexy without looking cheap. The really good news though, is when a woman feels sexy she'll automatically appear sexy to the opposite sex.
Show an interest
Sounds pretty obvious doesn't it, but sometimes it's easy to think we're showing interest even though the signals are actually saying something else. Showing interest is a mix of all what's gone before; not looking at the floor instead of at him, touching him when you have the chance, looking him in the eye and smiling, but above all, it's about listening to what he's saying and asking questions. If you were interesting in buying a house, I'm should you'd listen keenly to what the owner or estate agent had to say and ask plenty of questions, wouldn't you? Do the same when you're interested in a man! After all, how important's a house compared with a loving, supportive life partner?
Appreciate Your Date
Whether you've had lunch, taken a walk around the park or spent an evening together, thank him for it and tell him how much you've enjoyed it. Don't go over the to, just say you've had a lovely time and that he's been good company.
Whatever you do, don't leave the date without letting him know that you're available for another. By saying nothing you're likely to leave him believing that you don't want to see him again. At the very least, you'd leave him feeling confused and if his self-confidence isn't right up there next to the likes of Mick Jagger and Peter Stringfellow, he's hardly likely to call again. Saying something like "give me a call if you fancy doing it again" will open the way for him to make further contact. Playing hard to get rarely works.
Now it's up to you to get out there and start practising your flirting skills. It may seem like a daunting task right now but believe me, it won't be long before flirting becomes second nature and you'll be wondering what the fuss was all about.
So flirt up your life singles and you'll soon be having so much fun you'll forget what your life sued to be like. Join us now and you won't know how to deal with all the interest you are getting.
